The Lost Collective

Your compassionate guide through loss

We are here for those who have experienced pregnancy and baby loss and the people who support them.

Welcome to The Loss Collective

We are a collective of experts by profession and lived experience providing support, education and guidance for anyone impacted by loss. Whether you have experienced loss yourself, or you want to learn more about how to be there for someone else who has, there is something here for you.

The Loss Collective was founded by Dr. Michelle Tolfrey a Clinical Psychologist with personal experience of baby loss. Her aim was to create a space packed with evidence-based information from qualified professionals to help you find your way again. Here you will find resources to help you better understand grief, trauma and mental health and what can help you to move forward.

from dilemma to solution

Our services for individuals and couples include single sessions and packages with a qualified healthcare professional. Our aim is to provide support, guidance and signposting that is specific to your unique needs. Our resources hub has a wealth of information to complement these sessions.

We offer bespoke training and consultation to a vast range of Healthcare Professionals in multiple services. Our aim is to support them in providing evidence based, trauma informed care to their clients as well as making sure they feel supported themselves.

We provide training and support to organisations of all sizes, to enable them to provide excellent support to their staff who have experienced baby loss. From company wide webinars, consultation and training to HR and managers and 1:1 support for employees, we provide services across the whole organisation.

Accessible. Compassionate. Developed by trusted experts
We have a library of free and low-cost resources that can help you to navigate life following loss. This includes a range of downloads, courses and a comprehensive directory of charities, podcasts, books and other sources of support.

Our trusted services are:

Developed and delivered by qualified and highly experienced healthcare professionals.

Informed by the most up to date research and evidence base.

Proud to integrate the voices of the baby loss community throughout.

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